In a world that moves faster each day, many of us have begun to notice something slipping away — good manners. From distracted dining companions glued to their phones, to hurried commuters who forget a simple, “Thank you,” we are living in what some are calling an “etiquette epidemic.”

I was recently interviewed by Sara Harowitz of The Tyee on this very topic, and it sparked an important conversation about where we are headed as a society and how we might find our way back to civility.

The truth is that manners are more than just rules of behaviour — they are the glue that holds communities together. Politeness helps strangers connect, courtesy eases social tensions, and thoughtfulness fosters trust. When we neglect these simple practices, we risk not only appearing rude, but also creating distance in our relationships.

So What Can We Do?

• Pause before reacting and choose kindness over impatience.
• Put down the phone and give people your full attention.
• Acknowledge others with a smile, greeting, or thank you.
• Model the behaviour we wish to see, especially for children.

Each of these small acts strengthens the fabric of our daily interactions.

You can read my full interview with Sara Harowitz of The Tyee for more insights into the growing conversation around civility and respect.

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