Just the thought of planning a Wedding can be overwhelming and stressful for most people. Not sure where to start? Start with these Top 10 Tips as a foundation for your “To Do” List:

1. Permission to Marry – Start off on the right footing and future in-laws, on both sides, will be happy. It is customary for the future groom to visit the future bride’s father and ask permission to marry his daughter. If it is not possible to ask the father, he should ask her mother or next of kin.
2. Where the marriage will take place – Once it has been agreed the marriage will take place, the couple should decide on where they wish to be married. A Church, a Temple or a Registry Office. If they choose a Church it is normally one close to the bride’s home.
3. Book Early – This cannot be emphasised enough. The Vicar or Priest should be contacted immediately to discuss the reading of the banns and book a date. This is often done as early as a year in advance, in order to get the date you want.
4. Cost, who pays? – Traditionally the bride’s parents pay. However, owing to the exorbitant cost in today’s society sometimes one has to compromise. It is often suggested that the groom or his family pay for the drinks at the Reception. A Cash Bar is also commonly used, and most acceptable, with drinks for the various toasts and wine with dinner being provided by those paying.
5. Dress for the Wedding – Traditionally the bride, or the father of the bride, buys the bride’s dress. Sometimes the dress is handed down through the generations, from mother to daughter. Today, it is also common for the bride to hire her wedding gown.
   The majority of men hire a suit or Tuxedo for the occasion.
   Often the bride will pay for the bridesmaid’s dresses. However, owing to the cost, it is also acceptable for the bridesmaid’s to buy their own.
6. Essential bookings – At the earliest possible date, book the transportation for the bride and family to the Church and to the Reception. Also transportation for after the reception is of utmost importance to ensure there is no drinking and driving.
7. The Photographer – To avoid disappointment book the Photographer as soon as possible. A year in advance is advisable.
8. The Reception & the catering – Book 6 months to one year in advance.  Owing to mishaps that can occur eg: double bookings make sure you visit the place of choice closer to the date and check the catering for food quality.
9. The Entertainment – While the Entertainment should be booked well ahead of time, take into consideration the range of the age group taking part in the festivities, before you make your choice. The party will most likely consist of the young and the elderly – all looking forward to taking part on this happy occasion.
10. The Gift Opening – Traditionally the gift opening is done the day after the wedding day, usually at the bride’s home or other place of choice.

Don’t procrastinate, set the date!