5 Ways To Spend Quality Family Time

Childrens etiquette.jpgHaving a family with children can often leave you feeling rushed and stressed day to day. Our days are likely filled with some nagging, cajoling, and running from place to place. We try to de-stress by watching TV or taking a soothing bubble bath. The problem? We aren’t eliminating the stress but ignoring it. We are also forgetting the bigger picture: of spending quality time with family.

Children are children for only a short while. After a few years, they will quickly outgrow our company. Once a certain age hits, our children will grow up and leave home. The result is bittersweet. While we’re proud to have children grow into well-mannered and educated adults, we suddenly lose the precious time we once had with them.

To build a tight-knit bond with your children and spouse, it is crucial to spend quality time together. While it may sound easy, the reality is work and life stress tend to get in the way.  If your time and mind isn’t 100% dedicated to the other person, it will ruin your quality time together.

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Children’s Etiquette Class at The Vancouver Club

The Vancouver Club

I had a wonderful time teaching my Children’s Etiquette class at the Vancouver Club this past weekend. The children were an absolute delight, participating in all the fun activities and role-play; making them all the perfect diners! I would like to extend my special thanks to all the members of the Vancouver Club, who registered their children for the class, and a sincere thank you to Katie, and all the staff, at the Vancouver Club for their help and support during the event.

The Vancouver Club

Manners Matter – Even For Spring Break

skiing200x200If you and your family are planning a getaway for
Spring Break, it is worth brushing up on your etiquette
before you go! Proper etiquette will ensure an enjoyable
time for you and your family. Just because you are
leaving your home for a while, doesn’t mean your
manners can’t come along. In fact, make sure you
do not leave your manners at the door! Proper
etiquette is essential anywhere you go, even on your
upcoming trip for Spring Break.

Below are my etiquette guidelines that will help
you start Spring Break on the right foot:

Going Skiing? Follow The Rules!

Respect the rules set up by the Ski Hill. If there are any closed runs or out of bound areas, do not ignore the warnings. It is unwise and dangerous to do so. If you don’t follow the rules you may even get banned from the Ski Hill. Best advice: be aware of the rules before heading out to the slopes to avoid any problems!

Be Courteous in Lines

If you and your family end up visiting an attraction that has line ups (for ex. a theme park) please be courteous and respectful of others. We all hate waiting in line, and there is no need to make the experience worse. Do not push others or cut in line. Keep conversations with your friends and family suitable, as those waiting in line may likely hear your conversations. Best advice: don’t use foul language, and keep volume at a conversational level.

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Successful Dating at University and College

With Valentine’s Day approaching, many people’s thoughts turn to love and romance.That is equally true for young adults attending university or college. Even though there is a lot of work, everyone needs a break and it can be nice to share those times with someone special. Universities are filled with potential partners and it is a great opportunity to meet new people.

Whether at university or anywhere else, following the rules of etiquette for dating shows respect and consideration for others — and that is attractive. If you pay attention to these simple rules and conventions, you will be more successful and confident dating both on and off the university campus.

Watch your distance.
Everyone has an area around them that is their personal space and if other people get too close, the person will feel uncomfortable and not even know why.  The specific size of the space varies between cultures and individuals, but In North America, most people require about two feet of personal space. When you are talking to someone, keep a comfortable distance between you. If you move closer and the person steps away or looks uncomfortable, take a step backward to allow them more personal space. When you allow people the space they need, they tend to feel more comfortable spending time with you.

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Back to School Bus Etiquette

school busIf your children take a school bus or public transit to school, make bus etiquette part of your back to school preparations. After relaxing throughout the summer, your children have probably fallen out of their school routines including their bus etiquette. Start by waking them a little earlier each day to practice for those early mornings and to ensure they will be on time for the bus. Read more »

Tips for Making Family Time Fun

childIf you have children, it can be easy to fall into a pattern of rushing from place to place, nagging and cajoling them to do chores and homework, or zoning out into your own world to de-stress in front of the TV or behind a newspaper. When we are rushed and under stress, we often forget about the big picture. Children are not young forever. They quickly outgrow our company and want to spend more time with their own friends, and eventually they grow up and leave home.

To build a close relationship with your children and spouse, it is important to spend quality time together. Don’t let work and life stresses take over and ruin your most important relationships. Read more »

What Is a Good Age to Start Teaching Manners?

Any age is a good age. One is never too young or too old to learn good manners. Start how you mean to go on and start today!

I was recently on an international flight from Europe to Vancouver. A relatively long haul even for the best seasoned traveller. In the row in front of me sat a young couple and their adorable 18 month old son whom, unfortunately, had the most awful cough and cold. While my heart went out to the poor little chap who was coughing and sneezing away into thin air I also felt sorry for my fellow travellers, especially those prone to respiratory infections. Read more »

Get Ready for School with a Bus Etiquette Review

If your children take a school bus or public transit to school, make bus etiquette part of your back to school preparations. After relaxing throughout the summer, your children have probably fallen out of their school routines including their bus etiquette. Start by waking them a little earlier each day to practice for those early mornings and to ensure they will be on time for the bus. Here are a few more bus etiquette tips to review with your children: Read more »

Is a Gift Required for the Bride and Groom when attending an Engagement Party put on by the Bride’s Mother?

The decision of whether one wants to give a gift, or not, is always at the discretion of the guest. However, that being said, it is customary to take a small gift, for the Bride and Groom, to the Engagement Party.

Taking into consideration the couple’s taste in decor eg: Traditional, Contemporary etc. you may consider one of the following gifts appropriate and easy on the budget:

  • A nice Picture Frame – Made from Crystal, wood, metal. There are some really unique ones on the market today.
  • A Vase – for all those flowers the groom will be buying! Consider a Bud Vase or one suitable for a small bunch of flowers.
  • A Photograph Album – Yes, people still use them for their favourite photo’s, on the Coffee Table.
  • If you have a photograph of the happy couple in their younger years or when they first met, put a copy on the first page as a memento.

A gift we were given on our Engagement – A small crystal dish in the shape of a half- moon (crescent shape). It can be used to serve after dinner chocolates or to hold soap or jewelry in the bathroom. It has remained one of my favourite gifts, given to us by a work colleague of mine. Small but, special.

If you are really unsure of what to buy, you can always consider a pre-paid Visa/Mastercard which can be purchased from several local shops. Ultimately, remember, it is always the thought that counts the most.

Elizabeth

Bike Month and Road Bike Etiquette

In British Columbia, June is Bike Month. During this month, many organizations and government agencies host or sponsor bicycling events intended to encourage people to bike more and drive less. (You can get more information and see a list of upcoming events at the Better Environmentally Sound Transportation (BEST) Bike Month website).

Increasing the number of bikes on the roads (and reducing the number of cars) has many benefits — for the environment, for individuals, and for our communities — but it’s not without its own challenges.

One of the challenges is sharing the roadways and the somewhat tenuous relationship between motorists and bicyclists. The differences in the speed of travel and the ability of bicycles to slip silently between cars has led to much frustration on the part of vehicle drivers, while inattentive drivers and the potential for harm generates fear and anger among bicyclists. However, much of this conflict could be solved through basic etiquette – on both sides.

Bicycle Etiquette for Drivers

  • Be aware of your surroundings and watch for smaller vehicles, such as bicycles and motorcycles, especially in and around intersections.
  • Use caution when passing cyclists in the same lane. Slow down and move a far as possible to the left to give the cyclist as much room as possible. If there is a left lane, consider changing lanes before passing.
  • When parallel parking along a roadway, park as close to the curb as possible to leave room for cyclists riding to the left of parked cars.
  • When parked along a roadway, check for cyclists before opening your car door.
  • When making a right turn, stop before entering the intersection and check for cyclists both coming from behind on the right side of your vehicle and coming from the left across the intersection.
  • Avoid using roadways designated as Bike Routes as thoroughfares. Treat them as local access routes and, remember that in BC, these routes have a speed limit of 30 km/hour.
  • Do not honk your horn at a cyclist. The sudden, loud noise may distract them so they lose control of their bike.

Riding Etiquette for Cyclists

  • Know the rules of the road and follow them.
  • Be aware of your surroundings. Don’t distract yourself by listening to an ipod or radio while riding.
  • Ride as far to the right as possible, but give yourself enough room to ride safely and stay out of the way of car doors being opened in front of you.
  • When riding with other cyclists, ride in single file, not side by side.
  • When riding on a Bike Route, remember that you must still share the road with other vehicles and the same riding etiquette applies.
  • Signal your intentions and be predictable.
  • If you become aware of a car wanting to pass, move as far as possible to the right to give them as much room as possible.

Roadways are intended to accommodate many vehicle types as well as pedestrians.

No matter how you are travelling, a little courtesy and respect goes a long way towards improving the safety and enjoyment of travelling on roadways for everyone.

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