Spring is in the air, the days are getting longer, children are spending more time playing outside, and Mother’s Day is right around the corner. At Elizabeth Etiquette, we have been thinking about etiquette in the home and treating Mum royally on Mother’s Day.

A day without chores and time to relax is certainly a sure way to make Mum happy. Handmade cards and drawings from the younger children are wonderful keepsakes. Definitely start the day with a cup of tea or coffee and breakfast in bed with something to read.

As an adult, finding an appropriate Mother’s Day gift can be a challenge. As with all gifts, we want them to be thoughtful and considerate of the recipient’s interests and preferences. But older adults have often already accumulated everything they need and may even want to reduce the amount of “stuff” they have around.

Make sure you plan ahead, do not wing it on the day.

Flowers are commonly given for Mother’s Day and are often enjoyed and appreciated. But, if you are looking for something less typical, consider the following ideas:

• A gift certificate for a favourite restaurant. You could also accompany her to the restaurant and treat her to breakfast or lunch, or order takeout and enjoy in the comfort of home on the patio!
• A gift certificate for a salon to have her hair done or get a manicure or pedicure. Again, you could accompany her for some quality time together.
• If you are unable to accompany your mother, consider including transportation to the salon or restaurant. Arrange for a taxi service or even a limousine to pick her up and take her to the location for the appointment and return her to her home after the event – making her feel really royal!
• Another option is to arrange to have a hairstylist or aesthetician visit her in her home if she is unable to travel to the salon or spa.

Not everyone has an iPhone, iPad, or Kindle. A subscription to Mum’s favourite magazine would be most appreciated. There is simply nothing quite like settling down with a nice cup of tea and a good read! A year-long, “Something to look forward to.”

And remember that you may have other women in your family or friends who are mothers so wish them a happy Mother’s Day as well.

Get in touch if you have any questions or need ideas for your Mother’s Day etiquette.