Creating and observing traditions are an important part of creating shared values within a family group. Through Thanksgiving in Canada (October) and the United States (November), families and friends have an opportunity to reconnect, share thanks and celebrate being together.

Thanksgiving etiquette ensures a warm and harmonious celebration. Guests should RSVP promptly, bring a small gift or approved dish, and arrive on time. Showing gratitude to the host and offering to help with set-up or clean-up are thoughtful gestures. For hosts, creating a welcoming environment is key—provide diverse dishes to accommodate dietary needs and ensure seating is comfortable for everyone. Keep the atmosphere positive by steering clear of divisive topics and expressing appreciation for guests’ presence and contributions.

Whether you’re hosting or attending, thoughtfulness and gratitude are essential to making Thanksgiving a joyful and memorable occasion for everyone involved. Here are some more thoughts on preparing for a smooth and successful Thanksgiving celebration.

Observe Dining Etiquette

When attending a Thanksgiving celebration, the host/hostess sets the tone and which traditions are observed. Follow their lead. If they start their meals with Grace, follow along and respect their direction.

Use the “STEP” rule… No:

• Smacking your lips together while eating (eat with your lips closed);
• Talking with your mouth full;
• Elbows on the table; and
• Pushing food on your fork with your fingers.

Be Respectful

• For children, don’t forget your manners, have fun, and enjoy time with family and friends;
• Some things should be encouraged. Using “Please” and “Could you please pass the corn” and “May I please be excused from the table? Thank you for the delicious dinner.” These kinds of statements are considered respectful at a shared table; and
• Remove hats, toys and electronics from the table before you are invited to sit. This will help keep your children focused and engaged.

Send a “Thank You” Card

• Acknowledge thanks as you are leaving the celebration. Then show your thanks with a card sent to the host/hostess.
• If you have a budding artist in your family, ask them to draw something to share.

If you are ever unsure what to do, look to the host/hostess and follow their lead.

Happy Thanksgiving and most important, remember to wash your hands!

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