In a world that moves faster each day, many of us have begun to notice something slipping away — good manners. From distracted dining companions glued to their phones, to hurried commuters who forget a simple, “Thank you,” we are living in what some are calling an “etiquette epidemic.”

I was recently interviewed by Sara Harowitz of The Tyee on this very topic, and it sparked an important conversation about where we are headed as a society and how we might find our way back to civility.

The truth is that manners are more than just rules of behaviour — they are the glue that holds communities together. Politeness helps strangers connect, courtesy eases social tensions, and thoughtfulness fosters trust. When we neglect these simple practices, we risk not only appearing rude, but also creating distance in our relationships.

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Wedding season is in full bloom—and with it comes the joy, excitement, and, yes, the occasional etiquette confusion that can surround these meaningful celebrations.

Whether you are walking down the aisle or simply walking into the reception, good manners help ensure the big day runs smoothly for everyone involved. Here are some modern wedding etiquette tips to help you be the gracious guest—or host—every couple hopes for.

For Wedding Guests: The Polished Participant

1.  RSVP Promptly and Clearly

Respond by the deadline listed on the invitation by completing and returning the RSVP card, usually enclosed with the invitation, or respond as requested. Clarity helps couples plan food, seating, and budgets.

2. Respect the Invitation

If it says, “plus one,” bring one. If it does not, do not! Avoid asking if you can bring a guest or your children unless the invitation states they are welcome.