We all know someone who monopolizes every conversation they’re a part of; from interrupting others to incessantly talking about themselves. Clearly not the good listener in the group, and you don’t want to be that person!

Just like with everything else in life, there are conversation etiquette rules one should follow when participating in any conversation, so not to be labelled a “social bore.”

Top 8 tips for being a great conversationalist:

1. Do not interrupt when another person is speaking, wait for a pause in the conversation before you speak.
2. Focus and listen to what the other person is saying.
3. Don’t incessantly talk about yourself and “your life.” Your comments should contribute to the conversation in a positive manner and not take away from it.
4. If you find yourself dominating the conversation take a breath, let others speak! Ask relevant questions to keep the conversation flowing.
5. Be mindful of the tone of your voice, your facial expressions and your body language. They all speak volumes. How you relay the message is just as important as what you say.
6. Don’t keep repeating your point over and over again. It’s annoying and terribly boring!
7. Be open and receptive to other people’s opinions and ideas.
8. Enjoy the conversation, it’s not a competition.

A good conversationalist is able to speak with anybody and everybody at any time by being open minded, even if that ultimately means one agrees to disagree.

Happy chatting!