Remember Your Manners When Texting in Public

While out at a restaurant to other day, I happened to notice a small group of people at another table. They were chatting together while waiting for their meals to arrive.

Suddenly, a cell phone chirped and one of the people in the group checked their phone, chuckled at a text message they had received, and then, without a word to the others, typed a response to the message and placed the phone on the table before returning to the conversation.

“the situation reminded me of two people whispering to each other while in the company of a larger group of people”

A few moments later, the phone chirped again and the person responded to another message while ignoring the people at their table. This routine repeated itself at regular intervals throughout their meal.

Technology aside, the situation reminded me of two people whispering to each other while in the company of a larger group of people. Holding a private conversation, whether through text or in hushed tones, while in the presence of others is extremely poor manners and is disrespectful to the people you are with.

Good etiquette requires that when you are with other people, you turn off your cell phone and text messaging. If you are waiting for an urgent message and must respond, excuse yourself from the group and find a quiet location to respond to the message. If more discussion is needed, it is best to call the person to resolve the issue rather than letting text messages continue to disrupt the people you are with.

Garage Sale Etiquette

Garage saleIt’s that spring cleaning time of year. Time to clear the closets, basements and attics! What better way to do so, than hosting a garage sale. But remember, one person’s garbage is another person’s treasure. So whether you are hosting a garage sale or attending a garage sale, here are some etiquette tips to keep in mind.

Hosting a Garage Sale

  • Be respectful of your neighbors
  • Let your neighbors know you are having a garage sale
  • Invite your neighbors to participate and make it a multi-family/community garage sale
  • Avoid confrontation – tag “Sold” items with customer’s name and number for later pick up
  • As an added incentive, offer delivery for larger loads – for a nominal fee
  • Prepare for changes in the weather – have tarps on hand
  • Hospitality is key – offer refreshments to keep people browsing and buying
  • Smile – greet everyone with a warm welcome

NOTE: Beware of fraudsters. Know how to recognize counterfeit bills.

SIGNS: How will your garage sale stand out? Post notices on Craigslist and post flyers around the community. However, as a common courtesy after the sale has ended; remove all posts online and flyers.

Garage sale peopleAttending a Garage Sale

  • Parking – be respectful of the neighborhood and do not block driveways or other vehicles
  • Respect the host’s property and stay within the boundaries of the garage sale (in other words, do not wander around the property)
  • Take cash with lots of change
  • If you really want to buy something, hold on to it. Putting an item back down and leaving it is fair game
  • Careful handling of fragile items – just like in the shops, if broken, consider it sold
  • Don’t be pushy – be respectful of other customers browsing the sale.

At Elizabeth Etiquette we wish you success whether you are buying or selling!

Good Study Habits

Boy reading

  • Be organized with an Exam Schedule, Reading Assignment Log and Study Planner, so you can keep track of all the topics and reading material you will need for your tests and exams.
  • Find a quiet place to study where there are no distractions such as television, music, or other background noise. If you don’t need your computer, shut it down! Otherwise you may be tempted to play games, or check e-mails.
  • Clear the clutter, giving yourself lots of space to work.
  • Sharpen pencils and make sure you have ample paper for notes.
  • Drinking water will keep you refreshed, so fill your water bottle before you start to study.
  • Only gather the books and things you will need for the test, or exam you are focusing on.
  • Put a “Please Do Not Disturb” sign on your door.

Study ☺.

Plkease do not disturb

Junior Miss BC – June 30

Junior Miss BC

The Miss Teen and Mrs BC Pageant is celebrating its 15th anniversary with a new category: Junior Miss BC!

Elizabeth is honoured to be teaching her Manners and Etiquette Workshop for the 6th consecutive year, and delighted to be invited to teach the Junior Miss BC contestants.

  • One overall winner will be selected as “Junior Miss BC 2017”
  • Our other contestants will be awarded the titles “Sparkle Ambassadors”

This will be a one-day event on Friday, June 30th with a presentation show open to the public in the evening. What a great way for the girls to spend their first day of summer vacation!”

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CTV Interview: Office Party Etiquette

CTV interview

‘Tis the season for holiday parties and get togethers but is it time to “let loose”?

Watch Elizabeth’s interview on CTV News where she gives out some great tips!

CBC News Vancouver Interview: The Royal Visit

CBC Vancouver TV interview

As well as a CBC Vancouver Radio One interview, I was interviewed on CBC News Vancouver on September 20th by Andrew Chang, on Royal Etiquette.

CBC Vancouver TV interview

In late September, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, William and Kate, and their children Prince George and Princess Charlotte visited Victoria, BC, and remote First Nations communities, impoverished urban neighbourhoods and had a play date for their children with military families on the grounds of Victoria’s Government House.

CBC Radio Interview: The Royal Visit

Royal couple

CBC Vancouver

As well as a CBC Vancouver TV interview, I was interviewed on the radio by Shiral Tobin, Executive Producer of CBC Vancouver Radio One, about etiquette when encountering the Royals.

In late September, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, William and Kate, and their children Prince George and Princess Charlotte visited Victoria, BC, and remote First Nations communities, impoverished urban neighbourhoods and a had play date for their children with military families on the grounds of Victoria’s Government House.

Government House polishing

Etiquette Consultant on The BFG Movie

The BFG

Elizabeth had the honour and the privilege of being selected as the Etiquette Consultant to Steven Spielberg’s The BFG movie. Elizabeth’s role as the Etiquette Consultant was to advise the cast and crew on the unique aspects of etiquette in the Royal household, to make the set and scene as authentic as possible.

BFG table

The entire experience was exceptional and rewarding for Elizabeth, and she thanks all those involved who made this adventure, and entry into the exciting world of movie making, possible.

BFG on set

Directed by Steven Spielberg, it is based on the book by the great Roald Dahl.

Your Success Made Easy

Dr. Fred (DocFred) Simkovsky, in conjunction with Ann (Elizabeth) Burnett, are proud to announce their CD release, “Your Success Made Easy”.

Our promise to you, you are going to learn:

  1. Why you are having challenges making the right things happen for you
  2. The simple methods to turn your life and career around
  3. Those secrets when practiced are so easy you’ll say, “Why didn’t I think of that”!

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Kiss Radio Interview: Wedding Etiquette

KiSS Radio

I was delighted to be featured on Kiss Radio again, as their Go-To Etiquette Expert, this time discussing wedding etiquette.

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