5 Tips for Successful Dating

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Wondering why you can’t get a date?

With the holiday season fast approaching, these 5 dating tips may just be the answers you’re looking for, or tips you’re in need of for successful dating:

1. Keep your distance. Everyone likes to have their own air space. Standing too close to another person may leave them feeling uncomfortable, especially when you’re speaking to them.

2. Take the hint. When someone says they are meeting a friend for lunch, don’t assume you have an invitation to follow them to the local restaurant. Take it as a, “see you later, eg tomorrow …

3. For close encounters over coffee, pay attention to your oral hygiene. With fresh breath and clean teeth, you can certainly head in the right direction for a sweet conversation.

4. If you are the one doing the inviting, be prepared to pick up the tab. Note: not everyone is flush with cash these days, so keep your budget in mind when choosing your venue.

5. As disappointing as it may seem, know when to take “NO” for an answer. Go by the three strikes rule of thumb. At the third excuse, unreturned calls or waits with an empty coffee cup – this person, most probably, was not the one for you.

If you’re still in need of more etiquette tips, download my Dating Etiquette Guide for Men here. This is also a great guide to share with a friend, family member or even a son. Etiquette is an important aspect of everyday life.

 

Table Etiquette Rules for Eating Bread

bread basketBreaking bread. Could there possibly be Table Etiquette rules about eating a piece of bread? Yes.

It is not good table manners to pick up a piece of bread and use it as a baton. The etiquette rule being, don’t talk and wave your bread around in the air to emphasize your point.

Take one piece of bread or break off one piece of bread, at a time, from the serving dish or basket.

Break your bread into reasonably sized pieces, one piece at a time. Not too small, but not too big either.

To butter your bread, rest the piece of bread against your plate. It is not good table manners to hold the slice of bread in the palm of your hand and butter it.

Butter one piece of bread at a time. Finish eating that piece before helping yourself to another piece of bread.

Place the butter knife on the side plate, after it has been used.

Butter is served in several different ways. It may be served as a stick of butter on a little serving plate, in a small dish filled with whipped butter or small balls of butter, or little individually wrapped pats of butter.

Eat with your mouth closed. Chew each bite and swallow before putting more food into your mouth.

Do not reach across the table. Politely ask someone to pass you the bread basket; remember those magic words, “Please” and “Thank you.”

If your child is in need of Dinner Manners Review , I have prepared a fun dot-to-dot practice table setting activity for children. This activity comes with a full page of Manners Review for you and your child.

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Other guides you may like:

Printable Table Manners for all ages
Children’s Table Fun Learning Activity
Afternoon Tea & High Tea Etiquette Guide

 

 

Elizabeth Etiquette Now On Etsy!

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Elizabeth Etiquette is excited to announce that I’m now officially on Etsy!

This is an exciting new journey for me as I launch into e-books and etiquette guides for sale in my Etsy shop.

With back to school here, I’ve started my Etsy shop journey with two etiquette guides to help your children transition back into their school routine. My first guide – Back to School Etiquette Guide for Children is a review of essential areas of etiquette for children when returning back to school after summer break. My second guide – Organizing Your Child For Back to School – covers the following topics, what your children need for school, how parents can prepare their children for the year to come, and how to properly introduce yourself to your child’s teacher.

I’ve also uploaded a few essential guides to etiquette in my Etsy shop:

Dating Etiquette for Men
Afternoon Tea Etiquette
Tea Time with Grandma
Email Etiquette
Interview Etiquette

Stay tuned for more etiquette guides available on my Etsy store in the coming months!

 

Spring Cleaning with Respect

Now that we see a glimmer of sunshine, many people have started spring cleaning projects in their yards and homes. The warmer weather and the freshness of the budding trees and flowers inspire us to de-clutter, clean, and generally rejuvenate our surroundings. However, in our enthusiasm for these projects, we need to remember to be respectful of others.

The following guidelines will help you maintain good neighbour relations while you spruce up your home and yard:  Read more »

Mind Your Manners for Success at Dinner Parties

easterdinnerWhether you are eating with people you have known your entire life or are a guest at a table with people you are meeting for the first time, good table manners lead to a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere that is enjoyed by everyone present. This Easter, as you gather with friends and family members to celebrate and feast, follow these dinner party tips to foster friendly, cheerful interactions.

1. When attending a dinner party in the host’s home, remember that the space and facilities may not be designed to host large parties and some creativity and adaptation may have been required to accommodate all the guests.

In some cases, children may be asked to eat at a separate table from the adults or food may be served buffet style. In all cases, we take our cue from the host/hostess and accept the chosen arrangement without question. Read more »

How To Choose Flowers For Every Occasion

This is a guest blog post from my wonderful friend, Julissa at ProFlowers.

Ever wonder if the arrangement you’re gifting is sending the right message? Flowers are an elegant and thoughtful way to express your feelings, but many flowers convey different meanings. Knowing the symbolism and connotation of flower types and flower colors can make a big different in choosing the right arrangement. To help, use this guide from ProFlowers, which outlines what type of flowers to give based on 11 different occasions . From birthdays to holidays to bereavement, you can be sure your next trip to the florist is easier.

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Hostess Gift Giving with Grace

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Struggling for some gift ideas? Keep it simple. Hostess gifts do not need to be extravagant or unique. Generally, expect to spend between $20 and $30 for a hostess gift.

Here are some of the top gifts to consider:

  • Fine Wine or other spirits
  • Chocolates or candy
  • Seasonal ornament or a CD of Festive Music
  • Small plant in an attractive pot
  • Flower Arrangement (in a vase)
  • Soaps or Candles
  • Homemade Baking or Preserves
  • Books based on your hosts preferred reading genre
  • Kitchen ideas like cocktail napkins, a wine aerator, wine charms or a cast iron teapot
  • Gift Cards

Offering Your Gift

When’s the right time to give your gift?

  • Offer your gift as soon as you arrive.
  • Be gracious and do not create a fuss.  If it is a larger event, your hosts may have to acknowledge your thoughtfulness, but not have the time to express their full fondness of it.
  • Do not expect your gift to be served or put on display that evening and do not take it back at the end of the event.
  • If the hostess is busy with other guests, leave the gift in an area that is out of the way and indicate to your host the location of your small gift.

Consider Wedding Traditions When Planning that “Special Day”

Wedding traditionsTraditionally, weddings have many customs and rules but, today, it is commonly accepted that weddings are primarily about the bride and groom. If you are planning your wedding, you have a right to do it in a way that makes you happy. However, this does not condone being selfish or disrespectful to others. Weddings are an occasion to show thoughtfulness, grace, kindness, and hospitality.As you plan your wedding, consider these traditions to determine what is most comfortable to you and considerate of your family and other guests:

  1. Asking permission.
    If possible, asking for permission to marry is a nice gesture to the bride’s father or parents, although it is no longer compulsory in many cultures. Regardless of whether you decide to ask for permission, it is respectful to inform the parents of both the bride and the groom of your intent to marry before announcing it to others. Read more »

High Tea Social with Elizabeth Etiquette

Last month I had the opportunity to be a guest speaker at the High Tea Social put on by Young Women in Business. It was my pleasure to speak about the importance of table etiquette and manners for young women in the business world. I also had an opportunity to enjoy some tea with the ladies and speak with them about their future business goals.

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I want to thank Young Women in Business for having me as a guest speaker, and I wish all the young ladies luck with their future careers.

Interested in having me speak at one of your upcoming events? Get in touch »

5 Ways To Spend Quality Family Time

Childrens etiquette.jpgHaving a family with children can often leave you feeling rushed and stressed day to day. Our days are likely filled with some nagging, cajoling, and running from place to place. We try to de-stress by watching TV or taking a soothing bubble bath. The problem? We aren’t eliminating the stress but ignoring it. We are also forgetting the bigger picture: of spending quality time with family.

Children are children for only a short while. After a few years, they will quickly outgrow our company. Once a certain age hits, our children will grow up and leave home. The result is bittersweet. While we’re proud to have children grow into well-mannered and educated adults, we suddenly lose the precious time we once had with them.

To build a tight-knit bond with your children and spouse, it is crucial to spend quality time together. While it may sound easy, the reality is work and life stress tend to get in the way.  If your time and mind isn’t 100% dedicated to the other person, it will ruin your quality time together.

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